infatuation cycle

i realise that we unconsciously base our infatuations
based on aesthetics .


a little side note:
my friend says when you check out someone
the first thing you do when you check someone out is
you look at their .. gluteus maximus.

apparently you do it so quickly, you don't even notice it yourself.

let's get one thing straight .

orlando bloom is one lucky boy :)

not all girls look like this .

ohmyobliquessss D:

nor do all guys look like this.


if you think this is the case, you are completely unhinged and need some professional help.

we are flooded with images and messages on what we're supposed to look like.
seriously, who can actually keep up those expectations ?
you got no time in life to try and be anyone else.

"BE YOURSELF"

an original is worth more than a copy.

for girls :
even though guys may not seem like it, they are interested in what you look like.
especially when they meet you online , immediately judged.
i think all girls should put this as their profile picture..

creepy yes ?

so that you know when a guy likes you, he doesn't just like you for your looks :P
and when they ACTUALLY see what you look like,
you have no where but to go up on their standard potential list .

ingenius yes ? 

for guys:
girls check out guys too and then evaluate you from there.
don't be so quick to dismiss people by their appearance,
you could miss out on something awesome otherwise.



INFATUATION CYCLE :

You seem to deny to having feelings for them..

then later realise you do.

You notice yourself looking at them
at every opportunity you are given..

You "casually" bump into them 

and speechless at their presence..

OMGAWSH HAHAHA, inside joke ;)

Confessional time ..

Two things can happen..
rejection </3

OR


mutual understanding <3

It's when you are happy with yourself
that it starts to show on the outside..
ooft , yes that is the same girl from the above pictures.

and you just may get the girl/boy :D

TIP :
Do you miss? call.
Do you wanna meet ? invite.
Do you wanna avoid misunderstanding ? explain.
Do you have doubts? ask.
Don't like something? talk.
Really into them ? pursue.
Really shy ? grow a pair.
Scared of getting hurt ? who isn't.

can only win it ,

 if you risk it.

love guru signing off , haha jokes. 

katwinky.x.