As we embark on the longest 

holidays before retirement..

the best parts 

.. experience the wonders of peeing when there's turbulence

.. learning new things everyday

.. re-kindle the relationships you once had left behind

.. reaching the point of wanting to chunder after a buffet

.. being able to experience the christmas spirit

.. catching up on new series and movies

.. never running out of junk food

.. shop till i drop               

BUT, there's some things we take for granted.

think of this 

visiting a third world country really hits you.

we take everything for granted and complain on a 

daily basis of not being able to get everything

we asked for, when in reality that we are probably more

than lucky enough.

                               

every time you do this

just think of how lucky you are

people would kill to have your liver xD

kawinky.x.

Superficial me

As much as i want to admit that i don't care about looks,
that would be a big lie.
In truth, we all care even if it's a small percentage.




TOP 5 GUY WARDROBE LOVES


a spankin' suit

seriously, it's rarely that you can go wrong with a nice suit :)
it speaks class, with a dollop of hot.
lesson learnt ? hot suit = hot girl 


collared shirt

if i was a guy was in a good polo shirt,
i can practically guarantee i will do a double take.
yeah, i'm pretty weird :)


good pair of shoes

the perfect colour combination of dunks makes
people's feet super alluring ; weeeeee :3


oxford man

DROOL FACTOR ; omgomgomgomgomgomg
i super love love loveeee oxford shoes
it's like if i was a shoe.
I WOULD MARRY THESE SHOES.
it's pretty hard to pull this off if you don't have the 
right stature though ..


bow tie

i think i only like bow ties
cause it looks like a ribbon
and if you know me.
i have a little slight obsession with ribbons ;
they're cute that's why :)
p.s skinny ties are good too .

LOLOLOL story of my life.

katwinky.x.

You Jelly ?

you mirin'

first time i've heard this phrase this week

as ordinary people, we are subjected to certain feelings
we cannot help feel.

>> JEALOUSY

as girls, we are subjected to this feeling on a constant basis..

RANDOM FACT : that bra costed $2.5M

i'm jealous of her perfect body ratio,

even after giving birth D:

i have a slight thing with ribbons, they're beautiful :D

i'm jealous of how some girl's hair stays perfect,

while mine gets raped by the wind.

i think tiffany's the prettiest :)

i'm jealous of their natural beauty and talent 

and uber sexy legs.

i am jealous of those friendships that last

a life time and are never broken.

dealin' with it ?
(1) recognise why you're jelly
It's probably brought up by insecurity.
(2) no point in comparing
you aren't gonna gain anything from it.
(3)build up the esteem 
it'll do you good to earn some confidence :)
(4) try see from other's perspective
they're prob equally jealous of something as well :P
(5)jealousy ain't gonna do nothin'
makes things worse and builds paranoia

"Jealousy lives upon doubts.

It becomes madness or ceases entirely

as soon as we past from doubt to certainty."

don't be jelly

cute baby judges you!  (:

katwinky.x.

21 day challenge

the 21 day challenge

AIM: get a boyfriend , LOLJKS

do you know what the date is in 21 days ? clue ?

my friend and i were talking about how perfect it would be
if something super romantic happened on 11/11/11 at 11:11.
like ..get a boyfriend or get like a love confessional or proposal etc.
i know i know, HIGHLY IMPROBABLE. 
a girl can dream can't she ?



side story : organiser of our school formal was talking to some other girls
HER : yeah i've practically sorted out everyone's notes. 
although there was a note that i got confused with,
it said no formal date, but in date's name, it said FOREVER ALONE D:
OTHERS : ngaww :(

..that was my note :)

this is the DAY.

life's too short to keep wondering about what could be right ? :)




i want a guy that will cook for me
even if it means it's instant noodles.

i want a guy that i can go to ikea with
and pick out furniture for our future house x)

waking up to a sea of fishys :3

i want a guy that texts me throughout the day
knowing they're thinking about you.

what the corny, still cute though xD

i want a guy that's not embarrassed of me
and my weird/retarded moments.

i want a guy that understands you
even when you don't say anything.

i want a guy who makes movie moments
a reality.

LOL JOKES , YOU WISH THIS EXISTED! XD

 .. ( trollolololololol )

so true, do you accept

 the challenge?:)

katwinky.x.

Bring it on

high school certificate..

         ..(heavy stress conditions)

i am officially halfway through.

3/7 tests out of the way.

sanity still intact. 

i hate the moment 

..when you think exams are a long way away

but it's actually the next day .______.

this was me this week D:

..where you sit there memorising an essay for hours

and practice writing it out and your paper is blank

FML.

...where all you can think about is 

your future husband 

-giggles like a retard-

..where you think about the days that you didn't have to think

...when you consume half your weight in food

DEAR HSC,

why must you mess with ours heads?!

(for teloya and manbak)

katwinky.x.

essential knowledge

"FIRST TIME" encounters.

encountered doing something you've never done?

I HAVE :D

for the first time last saturday 011011

i went shopping with a guy, shocker D:

i've always seen myself as a "solo shopper"
cause i just have that habit of you know
get in and get out tendency ?
i don't have the time to dilly daddle


I discovered a few things
..normal guys can't choose clothes for girls
..my friend didn't know if you put pants around you neck, it's the size of your waist
..jeanswest has a buttcam (you can check out your butt on the tv, i want one )
..my friend likes mango tango boost
..big brothers are capable of being nice for no reason


Essential Shopping 
Knowledge for Guys
Denim (den-im)
cotton fabric, typically blue, used for jeans and other clothing.

Cotton serge - traditionally 100% cotton serge and probably blended with other kinds of fabric.
Raw denim - it's a lot darker and heaps more durable. when you wash it, it starts to fade to give it that really nice natural look :)
Stretch denim- they have a tiny % of spandex to make it stretchy.
Poly-denim- it tends to be more fancy and tonnes lighter, which makes it easier to wash since it's harder to wrinkle. 


Fine line between old people clothes and formal clothes

audrey hepburn is so pretty

i mean there is such a thing called vintage for "old" clothes being recycled
BUT, there is a fine line between vintage and what the older generation wears.
And they don't qualify for formal clothes either.


Just cause you like how it looks, 
doesn't mean it looks good when a girl wears it

Exhibit A

You may think , " wow, it's got a shiny button and its unique"
you have to account for colour matching skin tones, structure matches body shape,
it is all purpose for movement etcetc.


Have the patience to shop with girls

yes, we do take a long time to pick.
yes, we may try 3925712490 dresses.
BE PATIENT WITH US, APPRECIATE THE TIME AND 
EFFORT FOR US TO LOOK GOOD FOR YOU ;)


experiment ..

funny,beautiful,broken

Stay rational guys !

katwinky.x.

is there a fine line ?

is there a fine line between 
friendship and a relationship?


friendship
" friendship is a form of interpersonal relationship generally considered to be closer than association"

relationship 
" relationship is an emotional and sexual association between two people"

Similarities

Loyalty

Friendships - times may test the meaning of your friendship, 

but if there's mutual feelings for each other you're able to 

get past your differences and develop into a stronger friendship 

that lasts till you die.

Relationships - it's an unwritten rule that both parties

 have to stay true to one another and no one else otherwise 

your relationship is just gonna GG.

Selfless love

Friendship - knowing something is wrong and going out of 

your way to comfort them the best way you know how. 

You are there through every aspect of their life that cause them grief

 no matter how inconvenient the situation because you know that it is

 at that moment where you are needed most.

Relationship - even when they push you away,

 you hold your ground and do your part to encourage them

 and love them unconditionally. 

Commonalities

Friendship - it's what brings you together :) 

Your compatible personalities, similar perspectives in life 

and experiences and the fact you can just be normal with each other

 and not worried about being judged for being retarded.

Relationship - it's what attracts you to them and sparks the vomit 

of conversation and BAM LOVEEEE xD what makes it work is if you live life 

with similar principles and ethics and shared life experiences may also 

help understand each other on a deeper scale.

Differences

Do you worry excessively if they don't reply you?

Do you think about what they're doing at that current time?

Do you consider if they think about you?

Do you unconsciously find yourself staring at them?

Do you try dress yourself up to be noticed?

Do you think about when you'll see them next?

Do you feel a lingering tension?

BING.BAM.BOOM. 

it's a relationship.

on another note :

do you parents want you to marry someone ugly or pretty?

my family logic:

they want me to marry someone who isn't that good looking because they would treat you better since they would fight for your affections and not be conceited whilst you wouldn't have to worry about people stealing them or cheating on you.

thoughts?comments?

katwinky.x.

infatuation cycle

i realise that we unconsciously base our infatuations
based on aesthetics .


a little side note:
my friend says when you check out someone
the first thing you do when you check someone out is
you look at their .. gluteus maximus.

apparently you do it so quickly, you don't even notice it yourself.

let's get one thing straight .

orlando bloom is one lucky boy :)

not all girls look like this .

ohmyobliquessss D:

nor do all guys look like this.


if you think this is the case, you are completely unhinged and need some professional help.

we are flooded with images and messages on what we're supposed to look like.
seriously, who can actually keep up those expectations ?
you got no time in life to try and be anyone else.

"BE YOURSELF"

an original is worth more than a copy.

for girls :
even though guys may not seem like it, they are interested in what you look like.
especially when they meet you online , immediately judged.
i think all girls should put this as their profile picture..

creepy yes ?

so that you know when a guy likes you, he doesn't just like you for your looks :P
and when they ACTUALLY see what you look like,
you have no where but to go up on their standard potential list .

ingenius yes ? 

for guys:
girls check out guys too and then evaluate you from there.
don't be so quick to dismiss people by their appearance,
you could miss out on something awesome otherwise.



INFATUATION CYCLE :

You seem to deny to having feelings for them..

then later realise you do.

You notice yourself looking at them
at every opportunity you are given..

You "casually" bump into them 

and speechless at their presence..

OMGAWSH HAHAHA, inside joke ;)

Confessional time ..

Two things can happen..
rejection </3

OR


mutual understanding <3

It's when you are happy with yourself
that it starts to show on the outside..
ooft , yes that is the same girl from the above pictures.

and you just may get the girl/boy :D

TIP :
Do you miss? call.
Do you wanna meet ? invite.
Do you wanna avoid misunderstanding ? explain.
Do you have doubts? ask.
Don't like something? talk.
Really into them ? pursue.
Really shy ? grow a pair.
Scared of getting hurt ? who isn't.

can only win it ,

 if you risk it.

love guru signing off , haha jokes. 

katwinky.x.