is there a fine line ?

is there a fine line between 
friendship and a relationship?


friendship
" friendship is a form of interpersonal relationship generally considered to be closer than association"

relationship 
" relationship is an emotional and sexual association between two people"

Similarities

Loyalty

Friendships - times may test the meaning of your friendship, 

but if there's mutual feelings for each other you're able to 

get past your differences and develop into a stronger friendship 

that lasts till you die.

Relationships - it's an unwritten rule that both parties

 have to stay true to one another and no one else otherwise 

your relationship is just gonna GG.

Selfless love

Friendship - knowing something is wrong and going out of 

your way to comfort them the best way you know how. 

You are there through every aspect of their life that cause them grief

 no matter how inconvenient the situation because you know that it is

 at that moment where you are needed most.

Relationship - even when they push you away,

 you hold your ground and do your part to encourage them

 and love them unconditionally. 

Commonalities

Friendship - it's what brings you together :) 

Your compatible personalities, similar perspectives in life 

and experiences and the fact you can just be normal with each other

 and not worried about being judged for being retarded.

Relationship - it's what attracts you to them and sparks the vomit 

of conversation and BAM LOVEEEE xD what makes it work is if you live life 

with similar principles and ethics and shared life experiences may also 

help understand each other on a deeper scale.

Differences

Do you worry excessively if they don't reply you?

Do you think about what they're doing at that current time?

Do you consider if they think about you?

Do you unconsciously find yourself staring at them?

Do you try dress yourself up to be noticed?

Do you think about when you'll see them next?

Do you feel a lingering tension?

BING.BAM.BOOM. 

it's a relationship.

on another note :

do you parents want you to marry someone ugly or pretty?

my family logic:

they want me to marry someone who isn't that good looking because they would treat you better since they would fight for your affections and not be conceited whilst you wouldn't have to worry about people stealing them or cheating on you.

thoughts?comments?

katwinky.x.

infatuation cycle

i realise that we unconsciously base our infatuations
based on aesthetics .


a little side note:
my friend says when you check out someone
the first thing you do when you check someone out is
you look at their .. gluteus maximus.

apparently you do it so quickly, you don't even notice it yourself.

let's get one thing straight .

orlando bloom is one lucky boy :)

not all girls look like this .

ohmyobliquessss D:

nor do all guys look like this.


if you think this is the case, you are completely unhinged and need some professional help.

we are flooded with images and messages on what we're supposed to look like.
seriously, who can actually keep up those expectations ?
you got no time in life to try and be anyone else.

"BE YOURSELF"

an original is worth more than a copy.

for girls :
even though guys may not seem like it, they are interested in what you look like.
especially when they meet you online , immediately judged.
i think all girls should put this as their profile picture..

creepy yes ?

so that you know when a guy likes you, he doesn't just like you for your looks :P
and when they ACTUALLY see what you look like,
you have no where but to go up on their standard potential list .

ingenius yes ? 

for guys:
girls check out guys too and then evaluate you from there.
don't be so quick to dismiss people by their appearance,
you could miss out on something awesome otherwise.



INFATUATION CYCLE :

You seem to deny to having feelings for them..

then later realise you do.

You notice yourself looking at them
at every opportunity you are given..

You "casually" bump into them 

and speechless at their presence..

OMGAWSH HAHAHA, inside joke ;)

Confessional time ..

Two things can happen..
rejection </3

OR


mutual understanding <3

It's when you are happy with yourself
that it starts to show on the outside..
ooft , yes that is the same girl from the above pictures.

and you just may get the girl/boy :D

TIP :
Do you miss? call.
Do you wanna meet ? invite.
Do you wanna avoid misunderstanding ? explain.
Do you have doubts? ask.
Don't like something? talk.
Really into them ? pursue.
Really shy ? grow a pair.
Scared of getting hurt ? who isn't.

can only win it ,

 if you risk it.

love guru signing off , haha jokes. 

katwinky.x.