Trolling capacity of life

we suffer from complexities 
beyond comprehension.

adults underestimate the amount of problems teens go through.

yes, we have our own fair share of problems as well :)

the severity of problems is clearly varied.

MOST COMMON TYPES OF PROBLEMS HITTING TEENS ON A UNIVERSAL SCALE 


School

Being a year 12 can only result in a few things:
- sleep deprivation
- unwanted stress
- unpredictable mood swings
- success
- failure
- completely devo
- procrastination
- momentary break down 
- concentration span of a pea
- brain blockage
- verge on insanity , haha.

 symptoms differ depending on dosage.

seek help from junk food if symptoms persist.

we can all relate to this.

ever notice it's like for school its like

-2+5

for homework its

-35x + 24

and for exams it's like

46745^342x + (34857/235^-2y) 

Relationships

i think every nichkhun fan girl just died inside D:

"couples" normally say they don't want to get into a relationship when they're in year 12 because of distractions, but recently the trend is they eventually do go out regardless.  just something i wanted to point out (?)

there are relationships beyond HSC guys, no need to fret about it now.

you have plenty of time to find a hubby/wifey :)

problems in relationships:

1) You can't decipher who professes 

their infatuation for each other first.

2) Your patience wears thin as 

someone asks ..

3) You figure out you have no time

to spend with each other

4) Which by that stage can lead to arguments

5) One or the other, if someone forgets

something important, you're surely screwed

6) When one clearly doesn't understand the other

7) Sadly breakup, leads to poor confidence

 FOREVER ALONEEE D:

on a more minor note the topic of formals have

been grabbing my attention from all directions.

how does the one social event manage to drive everyone bonkers?

should i bring a date to the formal?

who should i bring?

what kind of outfit should i have?

do these accessories match this dress?

should i say "yay or nay" to the person that just asked me?

do i buy a corsage ? if so, what colour?

do i pay for them or do they pay?

how do i get home from the venue?

who's holding the afters?

chill guys, just wing it.

on a side note : get it(?) i'm lame, shush.

i'm gonna leave it to the people who read my blog 

however many to decide whether i should take a date or not.

yay or nay guys?

and who ?

(if there's no response i'll take it as -no date- )

did you know?

~ the guiness book of records is in the guiness book of records for being the most common book stolen out of a public library.

~ when you blush, the lining of your stomach turns red.


~ soap is formed from animal fats and oils.


katwinky.x.

Confuciusly Inspired

i met an old friend today :)
by old friend, i mean literally old friend.
he's probably around his 80's, he's the cutest asian man out.
his name is mr. lee ^^ (go talk to him, he's mega nice and speaks perfect english. no asian accent promise )
if you guys go to eastwood a lot, you might recognise him 
through his white samoy dog.

his dog's name is ash and family name is lee.
So therefore, join the two together Ash Lee :)

i hadn't seen him for a while so i thought it was good to catch up with him
before my epic longass tutor about synthetic polymers in chemistry (Y)


one thing he said to me was really encouraging ..

You look like a very bright and clever girl, so persevere through this year and I know you can achieve your goals :) Confucius once said "Choose a job you love, and you'll never have to work a day in your life."

my all time favourite Confucius quotes :

"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, 

but in rising every time we fall. "

there is nothing bad about failing, 

it just means that you're able to learn from that experience. 

It's important to persevere through your problems and improve on 

yourself and ultimately succeed in becoming a better person :)

"Real knowledge is to know 

the extent of one's ignorance."

ignorance: wilful neglect or refusal to acquire knowledge. 

It is thought that not being ignorant can widen 

one's perspective on all aspects of life. 

I guess that saying is sorta false "ignorance is bliss" is some aspects.

 On the one hand, being ignorant can mean you can have 

quite a subjective view on life,

 whilst ignorance to degradation can only mean 

that you are able to adapt a resilient lifestyle.

"Everything has beauty, 
but not everyone sees it."

Our view is constantly distorted by many things.

 Our personal view can be easily influenced by media and people in our life.

 Some can have positive and negative impacts. 

It's what YOU choose,what comments affect you. 

People always feel the need to evaluate everyone, 

don't let them bring you down, 

but choose to use it as a catalytic factor into improving yourself.

P.S YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL !

"Never impose on others what 
you would not choose for yourself."

This reminded me of the book " The Lorax" by Dr. Seuss. 

This specific page shows that compassion is a key aspect of life. 

People have altered views of compassion,

 it isn't about looking down on someone in pity,

 it's about being able to look someone as 100% equal to you. 

It's about being able to relate to another person, 

this means you aren't able to lose who you are as a person, 

but being able to see another person's point of view.

"I hear and i forget. 
I see and i remember.
I do and i understand."

We are able to agree that through personally experiencing 

something is where we can truly understand a situation. 

This is applicable to people in all walks of life, good or bad, 

all of us can relate one way or another. 

We need a perfect balance in our life 

in order to learn from our experiences.

 To know and not to do, doesn't make us learn. 

By taking part in doing something is when

 we can truly harmonise with reality.

katwinky.x.

Special day of the year

七夕節 Valentine's Day.

  QiXiJie 060811

happy chinese valentines delicious :)

"Baby I will wait for you. 

If you think fine it just ain't true. 

I really need you in my life. 

No matter what I have to do, I'll wait for you."

-elliot yamin

we all know there's that one day where guys
shower girls with lots of love on valentines day.
for us ABC's , we are much too lucky and comes twice a year :D
you other races jelly ? jokes :)
my hubby and i decided to take our 8 kids to the beach 
and the city as a nice excursion for the fam,
cause we're just that kinda people :)


well since i'm a sucker for cute things, 
i took it into my own initiative to ask what
the chinese do on this special day :)




the chinese:
They go for a candlelit dinner ..

and

They often float red and pink helium balloons..

im such a sucker for pretty lights !!

OR

Go the old fashioned way and watch a love story at the movies..

a walk to remember, cutest movie.

how to make it work:
1. Love each other
2. Don't lie
3. Keep communication open
4. Stay sweet
5. When you get hurt just forgive and forget
6. Never talk about break-ups
7. Never say it's ok when it's not
8. Forget about "pride"
9. If you say sorry, mean it
10. Don't compare past with present
11. Don't talk about ex's
12. Give and take process
13. Beware of each others feelings
14. When you have a fight, don't let the day pass

15. Don't be the perfect one, be the right one.

p.s for my future hubby..

yes, we are going to make the cutest asian babies ;D

"Love is giving someone the power to destroy you,

but trusting them not to. "

..........

trollolololol :)

katwinky.x